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Initiative - Should I Take It? by Charity Kayembe

Mark Virkler's picture

My daughter Charity has an excellent word about Jesus' example for us. He lived out of divine initiative, doing only what He saw His Father do and heard His Father speak.

How can we make that work in our everyday life? What does it actually look like for us? Charity gets into all this and more and I trust you'll be blessed by the message she shares.


Habitational vs. Visitational

One of my favorite comments from a reader on the angel series was “This blog is priceless and makes heavenly encounters more about lifestyle, and the kingdom of God habitational rather than visitational…”

I loved that. Just the idea that it doesn't have to be "encounters" or "visitations" where angels come and go. They're always with us! We can always take the initiative to step into that realm and live into the kingdom reality anytime we choose.

To Take It or Not, That Is the Question

But even as I typed that thought, I wondered about it. Taking the initiative. Hmm, is that right? Are we supposed to? Is it really a good thing to be doing? Because one of the big verses we want to always be living is John 5:30. Jesus said He does nothing on His own initiative, but only what He sees Father doing. And that’s what I want too!

Oh man, I don’t want to go against that verse. I shouldn’t be taking the initiative.

But then I thought, that’s actually one of the questions some people have when they’re first introduced to the 4 Keys. We teach about “priming the pump” and your taking the initiative to picture yourself with Jesus, in a Bible story or by the Sea of Galilee (since John set the scene for his vision in Revelation 4).

Okay great. Then we are supposed to take initiative.

We either definitely should, or else we most certainly should not

The Revelation

After praying into this, I finally came to an understanding that it is all at once completely both. Because if I don’t take the initiative and step into the spirit realm and picture Jesus and see Father and find out what they’re doing and saying, then I’m going to be forced to take the initiative with every single other thing I do and say for the rest of the day. That’s it. Every thought, I’ll have to initiate. Every action, I have to decide what I’m doing. Every single thing I say, I need to come up with all by myself. My initiative.

However, if I simply choose to take the initiative to do one thing – to step into the spirit, to look for vision, to listen to heaven – take the initiative to live into the spirit realm, that’s it! Then that’s the only initiative I need to take. Because I’m in that place of looking and I can see what Father’s doing. I’m in that place of listening and I can hear what He’s speaking. And then I can imitate it and model it and live like Jesus did – only being moved by Father God. 

The choice is either don’t take any initiative to step into the spirit and then initiate five hundred other things the rest of the day, or just take the initiative to move into the supernatural realm to begin with and live out of the divine initiative I experience there, practicing His presence all day long. Either way I’m taking initiative. But I think one of these is the more excellent way.

What Not to Do

We are often much too passive in our walk in the spirit and relationship with God. We put it all on God and say, “Well IF He wants me to see or hear then He should just knock me off my feet with a blinding light like Saul. That’s the way He did it in the Bible!”

Obviously God can do that, but I’m not sure that’s the ideal we’re going for. God can also make your donkey talk to you, but again, I don’t feel like these scriptural examples are anything we’re really wanting to emulate. I think they’re examples to be sure, but really, they’re showing us what not to do.

God needs to blind us for three days in order for us to get His message? Or if I’m a prophet, and my donkey has more spiritual discernment than I do, I think I need to reconsider my vocation. These stories just do not put these guys in the best light!

What’s the Alternative?

Imagine that my best friend never calls me, but I always call her. I’m always the one texting her, I’m always the one inviting her for get-togethers, but she never returns the favor. Well, are we really that great of friends then? That kind of one-sidedness doesn’t seem very healthy or quite right at all, does it? Isn’t there supposed to be some mutual reciprocity in the initiation of conversation and interaction and relationship?

Or what lover doesn’t want to be pursued? Sure, you can play hard to get for a while. But eventually, even the pursuer wants to be sought after and desired. God has feelings, too. He wants to be pursued, too. He likes to be desired. Sought after. It pleases Him when we take the initiative to interact with Him. He wants us to seek Him and find Him while He may be found (Isa 55:6).

The Pleasure of His Company

I don’t know if that maybe sounds a little strange somehow to us, to picture God having feelings and them being affected in that way by us. I absolutely loved what Dutch Sheets shared on this topic in his book, The Pleasure of His Company.

He does a word study about the meaning of “rejoicing” and says “There’s a new description of heaven for most of us – a happy, playful, skipping God with His happy, frolicking angels! Some will think I’m insulting God’s dignity by ascribing to Him human emotion and celebrative actions. Let me assure you that this is not my intention. I don’t for a moment believe He acts like us – I believe we act like Him!

“We were created in God’s image and likeness. That means we have emotions because He has emotions: We love because He loves, laugh because He laughs, cry because He cries, and dance because He dances … God is fun, cool, ‘real,’ and will be the life of heaven’s party.”

Who Cares?

God cares. What we do and don’t do influence His emotions. He wants to be pursued and sought after, which means He wants us to take the initiative!

Who does He reward? Those who seek Him (Heb. 11:6).

“’You will call upon Me and you will come and you will pray to Me – and then I will listen to you. You will seek Me – and then you will find Me. When you search for Me with all your heart – then I will be found by you,’ declares the Lord” (Jer. 29:12-14).

Calling. Seeking. Searching. With our whole hearts.

There’s a definite proactive feel to this entire passage. Yes, He wants to be found by us. But how can God be found unless someone is seeking? How are we going to see Him unless we are looking?

We know that we’re supposed to seek first His kingdom. It’s a heavenly kingdom. And seeking has a lot to do with seeing. So look for His Kingdom. Where is it? It’s all around us (Matt. 10:7).

Where Do We Look for God?

So where are we going to look for Him? Well, He’s a Spirit (Jn. 4:24). So the best place to start looking for Him would be the spirit realm.

How do we seek Him in the spirit realm? By taking the initiative to prime the pump. To step into the supernatural world and actively look for vision rather than wait around for a blinding light to knock us to the ground. To actively initiate a conversation with angels rather than wait around for our donkey to start telling us about the angelic vision he’s seeing in the spirit realm.

What Does the Bible Say?

Where does the Bible say we should take the initiative? Lots more places than I’ll get into here, but a few verses for us to ponder as a start would be: Set your mind on the spirit realm (Rom 8:5), fix your eyes on Jesus (Heb. 12:2), keep seeking the things above (Col. 3:1-3), and look at the things that are unseen (2 Cor. 4:18).

James said Draw near to God and then He’ll draw near to you” (Jas. 5:8). He didn’t seem to think taking the initiative to engage the supernatural was a problem. In fact, he said that’s the secret. That’s HOW to get closer to God! Go after Him. Draw near to Him. Meet Him where He is, where He lives.

John 3 talks all about our born again experience. We've been born from above. "That which is born of the Spirit is spirit." We've been born of the spirit. That's who we are. That's where we come from. That's how we roll.

Into and Out of

So next time we’re tempted to wonder if it’s okay for us to take the initiative and prime the pump, or if it’s okay to picture the truth that Jesus is with us, or to look for the angels the Bible promises have been given charge over us, let’s remember that this is the kind of initiative we’re supposed to be taking. Decidedly intentional and on purpose, we choose to live into the spirit realm, knowing that’s the only way we can ever begin living out of it.

Photo credits
"The Kayembes" image courtesy of
"Right or Wrong Directions" image courtesy of Stuart Miles /
"Rare Poitou Donkeys" image courtesy of franky242 /
"Hearts in the Sand" image courtesy of Tina Phillips /



Anonymous's picture

Initiative with God

This was a great teaching and gave me much food for thought! I suppose one of my favorite word pictures is a joyful God! I love the fact we act like Him because we are made in His image. What a freeing and incredibly delightful place to see ourselves. It makes me more and more want to pursue Him and act just like Him! Oh for the grace to do just that, each day!

Thank you Charity! May the Lord bless you more and more as you walk into His deep truths. May He shed His light on these truths and bring simplicity to those around you!

Charity Kayembe's picture

RE: Initiative with God

Thank you for your encouraging word! I'm so glad you enjoyed the teaching and appreciate your wonderful feedback. :) Blessings to you!
Anonymous's picture

Thank you so much!

Ask and it shall be given, seek and ye shall find, knock and the door shall be opened unto you...

Jesus invited us to take the initiative, but fear-based teaching has caused us to not take the initiative because we were taught by taking the initiative we would get the things of Satan (a stone or a scorpion) rather than the things of God. We were taught that if God didn't initiate it wasn't meant to be even though scripture clearly shows that God WANTS us to desire (Greek zēloō–to strive for, to set one's heart on, to exert oneself earnestly for) spiritual gifts (or the things of the Spirit) (1 Cor 14:1).

Thank you so much for pointing us back to faith in a loving God who desires us to pursue the things He has for us to enjoy, rather than to continue initiating 500 things on our own and wearing ourselves out based on what we think He wants from conclusions we've drawn of our fear-based understanding of the scriptures.

Anonymous's picture

The initiative to take

Great blog on taking initiative. This is really good writing and really good leadership for the Body of Christ. Yes take the initiative to meet with God and get clear vision, direction as to what to do. Well done for sure.