Can you examine your life and see that you have shortcomings and weaknesses and bad habits? Do you identify with these things or do you see them as peripheral to your true identity? You are correct if you do not see them as the essence of your being. Do you apply the same standard to others? When you see other people demonstrating consistently bad behavior do you see it as intrinsic to their being? Are you aware that you shall be judged by the same standards by which you judge others? To be consistent you should extend the same grace to others that you extend to yourself.
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