Have you ever heard of churches described as social clubs? You know this is not meant as a compliment, but there are legitimate and valid social aspects to a church. Where do you find most of your friends? Where else do you find people with whom you have the most in common, and see on a regular basis? It is only normal that you should share multiple dimensions of your life with them. The problem comes when your circle is small and exclusive. Visitors are keenly aware of when they are treated as outsiders, whether by commission or omission. Enlarge your social circle to be a come-as-you-are party rather than an exclusive social club.
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