I said that if your brother offends you, you need to go to your brother. Have you found that this is a very difficult thing to do? This can result in a hard conversation, but your brother may have offended you unawares, and it might be easily resolved. Even if it is not you have put the issue in the open. What is the easy thing to do? Cut off all contact without a word or a trace? Easier still to spread the word and enlist support from any third parties who will hear you, to vindicate and justify yourself. Have either or both of these things ever been done to you? Don’t do them yourself. Sometimes the hardest thing is the best thing.
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