By this shall all men know that you are my disciples, by the love ye have for one another. This is a profound statement. For any group, do you find their authenticity more validated by the love they have for one another, or for the love they have for you? Hold that thought while we revisit the story of the Good Samaritan, which hinged on the question of who is my neighbor. The moral of that story is to reach outside of the group you identify with to extend kindness to others. You can extend the same principle to the statement demonstrating that you are my disciples. You can expand your definition of one another.
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