Do you understand the importance of not grieving the Spirit? The Bible says you shouldn’t, and this is one commandment that should be obvious. In this context do you think only in terms of activities conventionally understood to be sin? What about excessive control? Have you ever been in a church that was so formally and rigidly structured that the Spirit had no room to maneuver? Have you ever faced such constraints yourself? Was that grievous to you? If you like to have some room to move around consider that the same is true of the Spirit and don’t structure things so tightly as to prevent it.
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