Do people confide in you? Do they tell you their deepest secrets? Everyone needs someone to talk to, and you can be that person, but this requires a special set of skills and character. What sort of person do you confide in? You need to know that you are safe, and will not receive judgment and condemnation in return for your vulnerable honesty. Another aspect of safety is trust that the other person will keep your confidence, even if this condition is not explicitly stated. Everyone has a story to tell and needs to tell it as part of their growth and healing process. If you have the right qualities they will find you.
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